*paces*

[kate]

I want to ask someone out. Someone I won't see in person any time soon to be able to ask. I... um. I don't have her email. Asking someone out in a comment seems lame. Advice?

I've never actually, with intent, asked someone out on a date. I'm nervous.

In conclusion, my cat is making wheezy-sneezy noises.

Comments

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

i don't have advice. i am so totally clueless. but i wanted to wish you luck. you're lovely and smart and fun. she'll be lucky.

[kisahawklin]

Aw, sweetheart! You are so sweet! I can only hope she thinks so highly of me. *squish*

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

i just thought of something. you could ask her for her email in the comments. that isn't lame, i don't think. and then you can ask her out in an email.

[kisahawklin]

But then... won't she know...

Oh wait. Like, on a post of hers? I could ask for her email?

Still, if'n she reads the f-list it'll still be totally obvious, won't it?

*facepalm*

Maybe I'll get lucky, she'll comment here, and I can just ask her in these comments, and it won't seem so lame.

That's still lame, isn't it?

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

if she comments here and you ask her here, it'll be totally sweet. so sweet. and if she's not into it (but she so probably is) it doesn't matter how you do it. i hope she comments here!

[kisahawklin]

I hope it's sweet, and not completely embarrassing. This is so complicated. *headdesk*

And you know, I can't tell you how much I wish I had gotten to know you while I was still on your coast. Why don't you move to this one?

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

isn't that just such a bummer? and i wish moot lasted longer! i've got to go back and spend more time with you people and all the little white dogs!

[kisahawklin]

Definitely. You must come to more moots. I can't tell you how wonderful it is to spend time with such awesome people like you. :D

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

aw. thank you, honey. i feel the same way. it was very hard to leave. i will definately be visiting again. and it feels great to be welcome there. thank you again!

[kisahawklin]

Glad to hear it. You are always welcome in Baltimore. I do understand that right now, that's me offering sumbitch and abundantlyqueer's hospitality, but soon enough it will be me offering my own as well, and you're welcome anytime. *squish*

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

aw thank you! yeah, is it right that you recently found a place?

[kisahawklin]

There are many things floating around in the ether, but nothing definite yet. It won't take me long though, I don't like to put people out for long, even people as wonderful as Nina and Bizz.

[absolutefiction.livejournal.com]

good luck to you. i bet you get a great place. just look at what molly found!

[kisahawklin]

I know! It's the best thing EVER.

[spillingvelvet.livejournal.com]

*preens*

[knitting-hobbit.livejournal.com]

*agrees with absolutefiction* <-- absolutely!