Oh, this is interesting from the other side!

Yeah, the problem is - it can work really well if the more introverted person actually likes the other! I would be fine with it if Wei Wuxian wasn't so convinced Lan Wangji hated him; that's what tips it over for me. I mean, I highly doubt you thought you were harrassing someone who hated you!

But yeah, definitely a complicated situation all around.